Fight or Flight
How many times have we heard the adage: "It's the journey, not the destination that matters." It might be true in an Obi-Wan universal wisdom kind of way, but when you're stuck in the Portland airport due to flight delays, it's the destination. Pure and simple.
I travel quite a bit for work, and like most travelers I've had my share of unexpected delays. Each time it happens I've noticed that people fall into predictable patterns of behavior:
- Stare blankly into space (this is the most common reaction)
- Look at watches and complain to traveling partners while shaking heads
- Storm the gates, demanding special attention and some apology or justification from irritated gate agents.
- Execute a flanking maneuver, quickly getting on a cell phone or jumping to a different airline's counter to book a different flight.
In this case, a live-for-the-moment philosophy would suggest relaxing and letting life take its course -- "we'll get there eventually!" True, but I think life has more to offer than crowded airports and cramped airline seats.
Sometimes, what matters is the destination.
